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Get Uncomfortable To Get What You Want

July 20, 2012 By Ben

This is the most uncomfortable I’ve ever been while filming a video.

Imagine being a 26 year old man and taking hundreds of pictures of a pig at a playground while surrounded by kids, their suspicious parents, and giggling teenagers. I eventually had to leave since the kids kept trying to beat up Parker Pig.

Parker Pig

But it didn’t stop there.

Because I needed to film outside and was running short on time, I shot the karate scene in the public parking lot of my townhome development. Several neighbors walked by in the process with only one asking what I was up to. He assured me that he had already given me the benefit of the doubt and assumed it was a video for a client. The rest might fear they live next to a pig enthusiast.

Was it uncomfortable? Yes.

Was it worth it? Yes.

Most things worth doing are uncomfortable on some level because of time, uncertainty, effort, fear of being misunderstood, or a hundred other reasons. If they weren’t, you’d have already done them. Between what you want and where you are there is always a gap to close. If you want something, close it.

Parts of this video were uncomfortable to film, but I wanted those scenes so I shrugged aside the awkward feelings. I didn’t care what anyone at the playground thought. I was willing to be misunderstood. The video ended up being my favorite creation to date. Sometimes you need to be willing to get uncomfortable to get what you want.

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  1. Brooke Pratt says

    July 21, 2012 at 9:00 am

    It turned out so well. Fantastic job. My daughter (4 yrs) and I were watching it this morning, and she was “squealing” with laughter. She keeps coming back to my Mac & asking to watch, “more Parker Pig, please.” He favorite part is the “board part.” She was amazed when Parker actually chopped it in half. Thank you for sharing.

    • Ben Nesvig says

      July 23, 2012 at 9:19 am

      This made my day. Thank you for sharing!

      • Brooke Pratt says

        July 23, 2012 at 11:06 am

        You’re welcome! Did you make all of the videos, or just Parker?

        • Ben Nesvig says

          July 23, 2012 at 8:35 pm

          I’ve made all of them so far. You can hear some of my VO coaching in this “making of” video. 

  2. Hope says

    July 31, 2012 at 1:16 am

    Great job! What I really enjoyed was the voice. I see stuffed animals all the time, so they all look alike to me now, but it’s that voice that made this character so real and endearing to me.

    • Ben Nesvig says

      August 1, 2012 at 10:53 am

      Thanks. The voice makes a HUGE difference. The voices in the last two videos (Dillon Dog and Ellie Elephant) aren’t great. I should have found other kids to provide them. When the boy who recorded the voice for Dillon Dog cried on the way to the recording, I probably should have taken that as a sign. Toby Turtle had a great voice though. 3 year olds seem to be the perfect age for cute voice overs.

  3. KD says

    August 10, 2012 at 6:40 pm

    Love this post! So true, you have to step outside your comfort zone to get places and do things sometimes!

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